Protect yourself or someone you care about from emotional and financial manipulation. Take this test or print it out for a loved one you suspect is being manipulated by a romance scammer.
Quick Questions: Are These True for You?
Fast & Intense Connection
- They said “I love you” or “You’re my soulmate” very quickly
- They contact you multiple times a day — always available, always sweet
- They shower you with praise, emojis, and promises — it feels “too good to be true”
Can’t Meet or Video Chat
- They refuse or avoid video calls
- They give excuses for not visiting — military deployment, oil rig, working overseas
- They say their camera is broken, or they are too busy
Request for Money or Help
- They claim to be in a crisis: medical emergency, legal issue, stuck at customs
- They ask for money, gift cards, Bitcoin, or bank transfers
- They promise to pay you back soon, but never do
Controlling or Secretive Behavior
- They tell you to keep the relationship private or secret from friends/family
- They say, “They just wouldn’t understand our love.”
- You feel guilt or pressure when you hesitate to help
- Something Feels Off
- Their story changes or doesn’t add up
- Their social media looks empty or recently created
- You haven’t heard their real voice, seen them live, or met them in person
If You Said Yes to 3 or More Boxes:
You may be communicating with a romance scammer.
They are likely targeting you for money, identity theft, or emotional manipulation.
What To Do Now
- Stop responding — block them on all platforms.
- Don’t send money, gift cards, or crypto.
- Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or community group.
- Save messages, images, and payment records.
- Report the scam to:
- Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre (1-888-495-8501)
- RCMP / Local police
- The dating or social media platform